Third day. I’m drained. Now I know I’ve become an introvert. The presence of so many people saps the life out of me. I had been nodding off to sleep while listening to panel discussions.
Although I was able to network, I just didn’t have enough energy to meet more people today. I was just cherry-picking. Then came the townhall meeting for all staff and I really didn’t understand what that was all about. It was at 4-5 pm, my brain refused to function anymore.
Then I had to face more people again because we had networking cocktails then gala dinner. Halfway through the cocktails event, I finally gave up and sat in a corner and called my girls to check up on them. Good thing the gala dinner was so full that they didn’t have seats for staff. Perfect! I had valid excuse to leave work.
So my colleague and I left to have dinner at some Vietnamese resto at Orchard. And it was a sad dinner for me because she was telling me about the new company she will be working for and what the job entailed. I’m losing my best reporter and I can’t do anything about it. 💔
It’s an Asahi dark beer. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
I was again so tired chasing people, talking to people all day, and I had to write one story while half-listening to the panel discussion at the conference. I’ve been on my feet for more than 8 hours.
At the networking break. Photo by CallMeCreation.com On the bus on the way back to my hotel. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
My colleagues from HK and I finally decided, enough is enough. Singapore is boring. So we went back to our respective hotels to change from our business clothes to something more casual and met at Chijmes to have drinks.
At Chijmes. Yes, there are bars next to a church. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
And have chili crabs. Or pepper crabs. Or whatever, I don’t know the difference because I can’t eat crab. I had kangkong sambal and so sad sweet and sour pork… Because I’m allergic to crustaceans or else I will have anaphylaxis. 🥴 I lead a sad life.
Chili crabs at New Ubin Seafood Restaurant. Photo by CallMeCreation.comOne pint for SGD 17. Cheers! Second pint.
Nah, that’s just drama. It will take more than this to get me drunk. 🤣 Believe me. Three shots of Patron and I was still normal.
I woke up at 6 am so I can start preparing for my Ms. Universe pageant, as I call my networking events. Had tea and instant cup noodles because I can’t be bothered to go outside for a proper meal. I just needed some carbohydrates to last me the day because in networking events, I barely eat.
All I do is talk and be charming. And get info.
So now I have two stories I need to write down. If I find the time to write them. 🥴
Anyway, just as I was about to leave my room, I noticed that my new dress had split a seam on the shoulder part. So I had to quickly change clothes 🤦♀️
Full house for the small conference today. There were more people at the back of this hall and some were standing. And to think the main event is still tomorrow. 🫣
A lot of GPs, LPs, fund of funds, family offices, etc. Moreso tomorrow, which is a bigger event than the one we organized in July.
I started talking to people at past 8 am, got back to my hotel for a bit (about four bus stops away) to get more business cards because I realized the stack I brought with me were not enough. 🤦♀️
I stopped at 7 pm because my throat could no longer take it. My legs, too. I’m just too tired. I’m supposed to attend the awards dinner but they couldn’t find my name on the list despite being registered by my colleagues. I finally had the perfect excuse to go home back to the hotel and rest. 🫠
Good thing I brought a lot of Strepsils and Bactidol candies for my throat. My capacity for talking even astounds me. 🤣 One company I had been covering had a presence there and I told their rep that ohhhh I know you guys pretty well. You were bidding for this and this and you have some pending xxxx with yyyy. He laughed and said you have a photographic memory and I wish I have that. I said, in my line of work, it’s a requirement because how else can I gather the things I need for my stories? 😬 And I featured one of your companies. “Yup, I read it,” he replied and I said, “You don’t have any complaints?” Nope, he said. Oh good, I said. This is one of my worst fears when I talk to the people I write about, I told him.
So I have five pending interviews/requests for connection and some more introductions for my contacts, because that’s how I am generous with them. That’s how I keep relationships.
Ahhh, these guys. They don’t give me the time of the day. Photo by CallMeCreation.com Bus on the way home. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
I bought dinner from Plaza Singapura because I don’t have the energy to eat in a restaurant. I just want to put my feet up, have a very hot shower, and retire early.
Sushi for dinner. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
And a lovely tea pack from one of the booths at the conference.
Very relaxing blend for the tired body and soul. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
I always choose the earliest flight so I can maximize my day. In any case, I can sleep at the terminal and in the plane.
4 am at NAIA Terminal 2. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
Before arriving at Changi Airport, I topped up my Starhub via app. No need to bother myself with looking for a convenience store, which I did since 2014. Then finally Starhub launched a wonky app in 2018-2019 so I could do everything online.
Then I got robbed by UOB at their money exchange kiosk in T1. Their exchange rates at the airport is nuts! PHP 11k for only SGD 239! I may have to use my credit cards more. Annoying.
Here is the worst part. My Dizo phone is not working here in Singapore. I bought this so I can use my Smart SIM so I can receive my OTPs for online banking and other transactions. And damn it, it’s not working. I didn’t check that it’s only capable of 2G, which I think Singapore has already retired.
I wasted PHP 1,300 for this thing. I’ll just give this away. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
I was forced to buy a new base model Oppo (A17 = 4GB RAM, 64GB ROM) from Challenger @Jewel because I cannot NOT have my Smart SIM dysfunctional. I will just pass this on to Twin I when I come back (since hers is only 3GB, 32GB ROM) and I will use her old phone for my travels. I just need the SMS capabilities of a phone for an OTP.
OMG, I promised that I will not spend so much here but here I am…
Still feeling under the weather so I had bak kut teh to relieve my colds. Photo by CallMeCreation.comI have yet to arrive at my hotel, I was already tired….Photo by CallMeCreation.comPark near my hotel along Penang Road. I could hear some of them speaking in Tagalog. Probably domestic workers on their day off. Photo by CallMeCreation.comI went to a ceramic exhibit at the nearby Visual Arts Centre. Photo by CallMeCreation.comMore ceramics. Photo by CallMeCreation.comThey are for sale. Some ceramics were dainty and lovely to have at home…but my cats will kill them. Photo by CallMeCreation.comNext door is a studio where they have art lessons for kids and adults. They have various courses there for different media. I talked to the manager there and it was interesting. You can have an a la carte class for SGD 45 for watercolor. Something nice to do on my weekend day off. Photo by CallMeCreation.comAt the back of the National Library. Interesting to sketch. Photo by CallMeCreation.comResting for a bit at the National Library. Not much visual interest here. Photo by CallMeCreation.comAlong Raffles Hotel. Looking for some interesting angles to sketch. Photo by CallMeCreation.comFinally found the Straits Art supplies store at North Bridge Road. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
I found Holbein, Rembrandt, Schmicke, some Russian brands, and Old Holland. I held back and reminded myself that I just spent SGD 229 on a cellphone because of my idiocy.
Second-hand bookstore. I have to keep myself from buying random stuff that would add weight to my luggage. Photo by CallMeCreation.comI wonder if I can sketch this with complete details…Photo by CallMeCreation.comWent to find a nearby Kopi Tiam because I was hankering for hawker food. I was generous with the chili oil because, again, of my colds. Photo by CallMeCreation.comFinally, my bed! I’m so tired. Photo by CallMeCreation.comNo closet and the sink is outside the bathroom. And bathroom is all glass. Good thing I’m not with someone. It would be awkward seeing your partner pooping. Photo by CallMeCreation.comBig-ass TV that won’t get used. This is a 65″ Samsung. Photo by CallMeCreation.comAh lovely. Tea to calm down my throat. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
Sleepy. Big day tomorrow…Awards night in the evening. And there are only two journos. What am I going to do? How will I stretch myself. Better get some sleep.
Hot tea to relieve sore throat. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
Some nasty virus hit me the other day. I was aching all over yesterday and had to sleep most of the day and the entire night starting at 7 pm. My lymph nodes behind my ears are swollen and I have sore throat.
I had been brewing tea to relieve my throat. I made myself Nongshim Bulgogi noodles, a little spicy soup that I thought could unclog some phlegm stuck somewhere in my upper respiratory tract.
Bulgogi noodles. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
It’s a terrible feeling. I haven’t tested myself for Covid. Please don’t let this be Covid because I can’t cancel my trip to Singapore. I will be leaving tomorrow at dawn. 🥴
I’m torn between sleeping the whole day today or shop for provisions for my family here. Don’t have any choice but to do both. Lemme sleep some more…
Ok so I forced myself to move and pack my stuff. As usual, my cats want to come with me.
Kimchi being obnoxious again. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
And the girls and I went to the salon for pedicure and haircuts. I can’t look drab when I’m meeting hundreds of people and doing my Ms. Universe thing.
Nail cleaning and polish. Just because. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
And I opted for a wash-and-wear haircut. Will be too busy to attend to my hair in the next 9 days. 🫠
This is our bonding day before I go. My girls are in their tweens and are now more aware of their femininity.
Waiting now for our food. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
I can’t cook. Can’t bother. Too tired. What’s the use of being surrounded by restaurants when you’re not dining out? So here we are, having something hot and spicy for dinner. Hopefully my throat will be fine tomorrow. 🥴
Swimming in chili oil. Photo by CallMeCreation.com
Our water utility in home town has been poisoning us with arsenic. The Commission on Audit (COA) has already flagged this in 2020 and 2021 but the local water district has failed to fulfill its duty as a regulator. I again wrote LWUA to demand why our water district has not addressed so many issues, the biggest of all is the high arsenic content.
I suddenly got tired. I am too angry and it left me tired. I’m just too spent.
There are so many problems weighing me down.
God, help me.
Thank God for cats.
Dear daughters, this is mommy, still grace under pressure. I try to be the best I can be despite the mounting problems on my shoulders because I want to show you that it can be done. That you always have to maintain dignity at all times because at your lowest point, that is the only thing that will be left with you. Love, mommy.